what he means is, most spouse's have the same dang story and the same dang excuses and it's NEVER their fault...it's always ALL YOUR fault...etc.
Think you will see that, but wanted to make sure.
Hope you are okay. Last two days have been...like nothing before. He broke his leg. Hospital. Surgery tomorrow. Drama. But I love his mom!
Anyway. I think you are doing good. I'm glad you have some insight and are able to make some realizations. It's hard for some people. (I always found it hard to truly, objectively analyze my own stitch.) Have always found that to be true in all parts of my life, though.
Wish there was a Dummies or Idiots book for that!
Melissa
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."