Oh I have the recollection from DB or DR, Michelle went on a trip but she knew from past experience it wasn't always pleasant when she got off the plane and greeted her husband. She anticipated it would be that way and always acted as if that would be the case. On this one particular trip, she thought what if she excitedly greeted him at the gate and was enthusiastic about being home, perhaps he would act differently. Well guess what...he did.

I think you both anticipate the others reaction and so set up this less positive environment. Think he will treat you lovingly and see how that changes your own actions and thus his actions. Much nicer cycle.

kat

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