My heart was aching when I read some of your posts because it reminded me of my sitch.
I do have a 4 year old.
My ex did exactly what yours is doing.
He and his OW use to take my 4 year-old on walks with them.
They don't care about morals.
They are not rational.
How I explained all this to my 4 year old brings tears to my eyes. Never did I think I would have to do that.
I told her that daddy was not well. He was not behaving like Jesus wants us to. He does not want to always be with mommy now. I told her that I still love him, but we could not live together anymore because of how he was behaving. I told her that no matter what, daddy would always love her and want to be with her. The simpler the better. No details, just basic facts.
The more you try to convince them that what they are doing is wrong, the more he will do it.
The more you tell him not to bring your daughter around OW, the more he will.
That is just what they do.
They rebel against you, morals, principles, and God.
They are children when they are in MLC, and not good children.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
