We went out and had a very nice dinner. It started off very nice but she seemed a little irked. I know she wants to talk about custody but I'm not going to bring it up if she doesn't. Not sure if that's going cost me my purple belt
It seemed like she had tried to pick a fight a couple of times during dinner. First time she mad a comment that I should cut the string beans into smaller pieces instead of jamming them in my mouth like a cave man (it was a really nice place - dinner was $135). I just laughed it off and picked up my knife
When I ordered a second drink she made a comment of how before I never drank and now it seems like I drink all the time. I just said that was then, this is now and left it at that as I enjoyed my drink
She was still feeling tired and down so she didn't want to go to the piano bar after dinner. Plus her cramps were acting up and she said she felt too full from being bloated. I felt bad for her that she couldn't enjoy the evening.
We did walk around the town for a few minutes.
We got home at 8:30 and she said she was going to jump in the shower to rinse off and change in her pj's (her pants were feeling tight from being bloated)
I told her I was going to sit out in the patio a bit as it was still nice out and it was early.
So here I am. It is a very nice evening out. Too bad it was a bad time of the month for her for us to go out I feel bad for her that she couldn't enjoy the evening. I'm not going to let her ruin my evening
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