I am trying, J, I really am. I need to work on gratitude for what IS instead of worrying about what isn't.
Don't you just hate events like your X texting your sister? I mean, WHY??? It is like you are cruising along, doing great, and they have to stick their big heads back into your life in some weird capacity. And, as much as you don't want to, you end up spending time pondering the sense of the whole thing. Then, nothing comes of it and we end up beating ourselves up for wasting brain space on it all.