Belle,

Just wanted to show my support. You're so fortunate to have Puppy as your mentor. I made lots of mistakes when my H dropped the OW bomb, including helping him "normalize" his A. I wish you the best with everything.

Stay strong.

Puppy!

Quote:
You don't need to be "mean," you don't need to be "cold," and you don't need to be "harsh." You need to be some female equivalent of Sgt. Joe Friday, of "Dragnet" fame:

JUST THE FACTS, MA'AM.

This is exactly the character I'm planning on emulating as I go to our first mediation. Too funny that Belle doesn't know who Sgt. Friday is - guess we're showing our age!


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10