I agree - he is under the influence of a drug that causes him to lose all control of his thoughts and behavior. You should do what you can to be ok - separate yourself from him in some way right now. Ignore what he said - would he say it without the alcohol?
When he is sober, I might suggest that you let him read the book to see what it says. You have nothing to hide and it may help him to see what he might be doing that he could change - empowering if you want. No point arguing with him about it - either offer it to him or leave it alone - its a book.
Before my separation, it was recommended that I find places to go when my H was drunk so that I wouldn't have to be exposed the c**P that comes with the anger and drinking. I didn't like the advice but it actually helped. Sometimes I took a book and read in a scenic parking lot - sometimes I went to a movie, sometimes I went to a friend's home - a walk with a phone to talk it through with others, sometimes just sat on the phone with others while he was there - then I looked into motels, hotels etc in the area - it all helped me to be ok and realize that I had to take care of myself first. When I came home - he would be passed out on the couch and i could go to bed with quiet and comfort. Taking care of me. Make some plans.
