Ok, well I rarely make it to this board any more. I have been around the block so I have to ask just why you think there is no physical affair going on. That is a byproduct of MLC and many of them lie. Most likely that is happening I am sorry to tell you. If I am wrong then forgive me.
Don't worry about what you have already said to people in the past, that will not matter to him if that is what you are concerned with. He is not thinking like you. It does matter to others though, so now you can stop. Cheers, Wonder
