H has officially filed. Please help me!!!!!

[MomInPain]

It's a rainy dreary day here in the Pacific Northwest.

Just dropping by to give a little update and see how others are doing.

I'm officially a college student now, wow! I start classes in April. Talk about a big GAL, but it's good.

When I see him, I am pleasant, funny, and vibrant.

He seems to linger in conversations a bit longer, in person and on the phone. Talks are only about kids and schedules. I often wonder when he asks how I'm doing or how things are going, if he really cares or is just being nice.

Surprisingly he hasn't mentioned the D in over a week. I'm sure it's just a matter of time though. He'll want to have all the paper work settled up before the scheduled court date.

His week with the kids is just about over, he is very quick to tell me how great things are going and how they have a good schedule going. He also called to tell me he didn't think 2 weeks at a time wouldn't work. Says it's because he would miss them too much if he had to wait 2 weeks. That's funny, didn't seem to bother him to just see them every 2 weeks for 2 days at a time for 3 months??? Whatever.

He'll be bringing the kids over tomorrow, so he can see how I'm moving forward. Not sure if he even cares, which is fine.

Time flies when your having fun, it's been almost 4 months since we split up. Still miss him, but I'm making the best of my new life and doing just fine without him.