H called last night asking to get together today - said if I don't call back he will know I don't want to. I didn't.

Today he calls to see if I want to get something to eat. I wasn't around to get the call and just didn't return it. His words -" I guess the answer is no if you aren't answering the phone."

This is hard, because I feel rude. Does anyone else ever feel rude about not answering or returning calls. And, I do keep it off most of the time so I don't know he is calling. I actually heard earlier this week that he did call over the weekend but my phone was off.

I am feeling a bit angry too. What part of no contact do he not get?


Me late 50's
M 9/06
D 4/11