I think I'm done...

[peacetoday]

HI so
I read part ogfyour thread and your H is confusing
he is still showing interest in you but cant seem to committ back home
some stories here are like that too
some H dont want anything much to do with wife

I would suggest you rea other posts
there are other posters here with younger H either in MLC or some kind of crises
did anyone die recently or any traumatic events for H in the last year?
There are MLC resources explaining what it is
If it is MLC, it is a long journey of erratic bahavior , affairs and spending sprees
that seems to be the common link among most of the posteres
protect yourself financially as best you can
and
just realize what ever he is going thru it isnt your fault and you have no control
therapy is helpful for you and him if he is willing
but many ofg these MLCers will deny they need therapy, often blame the spouse for everything under the sun
hang in there\
peace