Don't know what color ranks you are familiar with, but we will go white, yellow, orange, purple, blue, green, brown, black (got it off a kempo website).
I'm giving you your orange belt early, since she tested you and you didn't crumble. To earn purple, you are going to have to come to terms with the process she is pushing. You need to do this so that you can handle it cleanly with her. That means that when she makes time to discuss it, you don't freak out and backslide.
It is going to be tough, but your job is work on not taking it personally.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
