4kids, believe it or not, your posting to me is very timely. I dont get to the site as much lately (been pretty sick and dealing with constant changes at our company).

I am dealing with such torment about my D not being with me. And I really dont know if she is going to be staying with me every other week or not. She has been at her moms for over a week (since a week from this past thursday) and I really miss her. Of course, I am sick right now so I dont blame her wanting to stay over at her moms longer but she hasnt even checked with me.

Im also discouraged that she is not keeping in touch with her younger brothers or seeing her dog. Her dog is nuts about her and has been moping around her, and for the first time, chewing up her tennis shoes and destroyed her comforter.

I was thinking about church and how you handled it. I think I agree with you and I am going to ask my D to attend. I know how I am if I miss church or bible study for one week so I am concerned with her departure for several weeks.

I do believe that God has a hold of her heart and wont let go. And I know that once He has someone that He will seek after them until they return.

I want to be the man you described that she will expect men to treat her like I do. And she already belongs to Him and I am praying that He does keep her close as I finish typing this.

THANK YOU!!!


Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God