WAW - Very confused and devestated - pt 5

[missmyfriend]

sorry about not responding to your post, confused, on my thread. I have been pretty sick lately.

Just to let you know, I have been divorced (not Gods divorce) since Oct of last year. I was all over the place but am now focusing on my family and treating my ex as if I still was married to her. Let me be more clear, I dont let her know that I consider us married still and dont have any expectations but I treat her with respect (except for some stupid mistakes I made) and as a partner. She has softened somewhat to me this past week since I quit considering her, in my heart, being more of an enemy. I know that a person can say pleasant things but vocal inflections and physical mannerisms can give it away. So I try to treat her as if she was a gift (and she is).

Whatever she has to say to you about the custody, try to not react negatively. Think long term.

Praying for you!