confused, seriously give it to God. Right now, it is not just the only thing I can do but the best thing. I am in a lot of pain right now because I miss my D. I never would have imagined her to be distant from me but I think this is something that she is doing and will come around as long as I keep my faith in God and believe that He has a hold of her heart.
My D is an incredible girl and she is going to make an awesome woman.
Your W is going to have trouble with anything you do if she is going through an MLC. All you can do is the "right thing" not the worldly thing. The world will think you are crazy and that your actions (godly) will make no sense. It wont matter what happens in the end if you kept doing what we, as husbands are supposed to do -- the same thing Jesus did for the church. He received no appreciation and He was killed for His sacrificial love. And He calls us to do the same.
I need to thank you for posting (and Im sorry for not being responsive but I have been pretty ill lately and with work, not much use to anyone) because it is helping me put everything back in perspective. I need to quit looking at what I am going through and consider others. I can be quite self focused.
Please keep in touch and keep posting.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God