You just couldn't make that up! so unless the dog tells you your upsetting him I wouldn't have left but I do understand why you did.
God bless.One day this will be over, not what you wanted I know but I think a much needed ending for your sanity.
Naej, Thanks for the Saturday visit, and the laugh. I'm home alone today with my sheep puppy dog, enjoying the peace.
I do enjoy sharing scenes from my life with my W and hearing other's reactions.
I forgot to mention in my last post another scene, I wanted to share.
My W and I have a cooking job on Sunday. We cook for a relative who has a special needs child. It takes the equivalent of a full work day to shop and prepare this food.
The job has evolved into my doing 90% of the work. I actually enjoy the work, plus it's great money. It pays for my dog's daycare, with still more leftover.
It's easier to not partner with W, as you may understand, and do the job myself. If it weren't for me, she would have quit the job months ago.
Her role has evolved into packing the finished items into coolers, so that I can deliver them at the end of the day. This 30 minute task is the most stressful part of the job.
There are naturally dirty dishes and pots and pans at this time. She came home from her sleeping elsewhere around 6PM, last Sunday. She brought her male friend with her (I don't know the status of their R, it may be simply an EA, as I think he is M).
She told me and sent a couple emails to me a few days later, that her friend confronted her on her behavior. She said that he took her to task about her unfairness to me. He told her that I'm doing most of the work, and that she had no right to complain about a mess afterwards.
She told me that maybe he's right, and that she needs to think about her behavior. I couldn't help but start to laugh, about her choice of words,that she had to think about and consider his comments.
I know that I should be the one confronting her when she gets angry. It's one of my 180's to practice. It's still nice to get validation and justice from the world sometimes.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
