Use your lawyer, as 25 suggested. Until one or the other of you is out of the house, your children will be the collateral damage of this divorce war. I am so sorry for that.
Hold on. Stay the course. Do the right thing.
You are a good person. You can do this.
Hugs to you and the kids, Spitty
Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest. Mark Twain
