That's right. At least one of you is thinking of the children.
One of my friends, that I talk about often on here...she was the egf to me....She is now divorced (twice), and was living with the OM. Every day is a saga all about herself, never worrying about her kids. The OM left them, but she just called saying she is going to pick him up from the airport. She wanted to know if I could watch her kids. I'm so sick of her having other people take care of her kids when she has them. I feel so bad for them. She has them every other week, and most of the time takes them to the gym so she can work out. She has all day off, but chooses to work out when they come home from school/daycare. It's just pathetic.
Sorry for the hijack. She just called me and I'm just so sick of this behavior from so-called parents.