I guess if nothing else this just shows that you are never truly done with the ex when kids are involved. Our lives will be intertwined until we pass. It would have been easier if I had left him after the first affair when there weren't kids involved. Hindsight what a torturous gift.
I am sure it is funny for him that he can't change the "game" when he feels like it. If he had really ever thought before he acted maybe none of this would have come to pass. Can't change that, just have to move forward from here.
It does feel good that I do at least have a say in protecting my kids from thoughtless people. After feeling like I had no say in the last two years of my life, finally, I do.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory