I am struggling with the detachment also. Funny how the WAS has no issues detaching. I have had extreme emotional turmoil as well. I guess if nothing else we can take comfort that we are not going through this alone, even though it does feel that way. Know that almost everyone here, share so many feelings and emotions in common. I am praying for you.


Me: 33
W: 26
Married: 5 yrs in July
T: 8.5 yrs
Kids: 0
Bomb: 2/4/09
D Filed (by her): 2/28/09