Here's my thread in newcomers.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1731681&page=5#Post1731681

So the two of them have been outed, It started before we were separated and I knew it deep down, but couldn't prove or didn't want to. Anyway now that he's been outed, he has to choose between his common-law wife and his 2.2M resort in british columbia canada, or my wife (not yet divorced, separated 5 mos) with 2 kids, alot of debt and baggage.

She is very angry and lashing out tat someone she believes betrayed her (he didn't, and I respect him for it...a promise and all), and I am concerned what will happen next. Any7 guidelines/ My DR book arrived yesterday nd I'm already way into it.

lonnie


Me: 36 years old 1st marriage
Wife: 40 years old second marriage
S: 12
D: 6
Status: Separated Nov 2/08, Served papers Feb 18/09.
PA confirmed 03/09
Custody: 1 week on, 1 week off, wife wants sole.