Good for you on you "movin' on" actions. I think you and P-Dad is right on, on this subject. It will put me in the process and help me feel better if I am controlling some of these needed actions.
P-Dad,
I've been slow to do anything financially since this is the main reason the D process has dragged since the bomb last May. W started working 13 months ago (SAHM for 10 years), and as she is in a mostly commission sales position, her wages are ramping up slowly. She only makes about half of what I do, so the delayed D helps us both afford a house (hopefully) and will reduce my CS. And to give her credit, she has really spent carefully over these months, not splurging, and we take the same weekly allowance. So I haven't had a strong reason to open up new accounts a divide up things - will leave most of that to our mediation and courts.
