Breton, have I had anyone apologize to me? Sure! Not over anything big, small things. I have had some major wrongs done to me by some people and have never gotten anything. I have seen others suffer at the hands of others terribly and never get an apology or nothing. I guess that is human nature, but it isn't my nature. Breton, you asked me if I remembered how hard it was for me to apologize? About 3 years ago, the same time that my XW moved out, the boss at my work tried to get rid of me. It was a political move, everyone knows it, but he tried it nonetheless. Anyway, I ended up getting rid of him! LOL I should say the Board did, I work in education. I suspected a Board Employee of helping him try to ge rid of me, had some good circumstancial evidence to support it. To make a long story short, I wouldn't speak to her, undercut her, made her life a living hell. I found evidence the other day that exonerated this woman of any wrong doing against me. I went IMMEDIATELY to Central Office, told the Superintendent that I needed to see him and the lady I accused immediately. I then issued a sincere, humble, and heartfelt appology to her for falsely accusing her of this wrong doing. Breton, I am a man of honor, I know that is archaic in this time, but it was NO PROBLEM for me to do that in front of the boss! It was the LEAST I COULD DO! She starting crying and hugged me, I started crying and hugged her back, it was very emotional to say the least. Right should overcome self-richesness!!!