Hi Kev, you sound a lot better in the last couple of days. Is it because you feel a little more in control of the sitch? I hope you keep feeling good. There will be moments of sadness but hopefully they will go away quickly as time passes.

Yes, I meant your Wife, sorry for the confusion. I guess I can try directing all my questions to the kids. It does feel kind of rude to our spouses though but I guess if the DB coach says to give it a try, I can certainly do that. Thanks for the tip, I will try it tomorrow and see what kind of reaction I get.


Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'