Yes, yes, yes!! Hope, I am so glad you are changing your look! NOt that you didn't look good before. But it works wonders for 1) your self esteem - the compliments you get, the way you feel inside; 2) gets your H's attention - as in what is she up to? How come she never used to dress like this? He might not say anything but men are visual creatures so I am sure he is looking 3) Show your D's that Mom is a survivor and not dead - it's OK to be sad for awhile but life goes on for Mom and she is doing very well, thank you very much!

Good on you, Hope!


Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'