Peaceful is a great thing to feel after all of the previous chaos. I found that when I got out of the limbo stage, I felt a lot of resolve and peace.

Sorry about your W. My H was very cold, distance, and unfriendly for a while and it was not fun! It was hard to not only lose my spouse but also my best friend. A lot of change in a short amount of time....

Hope you're having a good weekend :-)

Me:28, first M
H: 33, second M
Married: 08/08
Bomb: 10/08
H filed D and deployed: 12/08
Served: 04/09
I deploy: 07/09
Hearing date: 08/09