You really need to let him be right now. He needs to feel the sadness of not having his family!
Your right YR and soooo tuff to do. But! Do they? My H I think feels it but doesn't know that's what's hurting him. He blames everyone and everything instead of really taking a long hard look and realizing what made him happy. It is so sad, but so true that there is really nothing we can do.
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!