Just noticed in your sig that you commented about how your husband filed for divorce 2 weeks after the bomb.
Don't feel so bad about it, I got the bomb and the filing on the same day! That was right after my wife and I had lunch together. She even text me afterwards that she felt so much better after the lunch and appreciated me being there for her.
Talk about feeling like a real dumb a** when she dropped the bomb later that day!
I am doing much better and have learned so much the 9 weeks since the bomb.
I'm understanding more and more of what everyone here has been telling me. I'm still hopeful for my situation (you can read about the latest if you get a chance) but finally reached a point that I will still be able to be happy if the divorce still goes through. It took a lot of people from here, counseling, tears and tissues for me to get to this point. I'm still early in my journey but didn't even think I would get to this point emotionally and mentally.
I am encouraged in reading how strong you have made it.
Take care and keep your head up! You will make it!
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
