You have nothing to feel guilty about. If she wants to feel bad and cranky, that's up to her. After all, if you guys D, she won't have you around to vent to and soothe her anyway.
You are getting to understand what detaching means.
Especially since she's cramping, don't engage her in any talks even if she pushes you to it. I think anything you say is going to be taken aggressively and with anger.
It's great that you were compassionate towards her and didn't go overboard. That's the path you have to continue on.
You notice even last night she didn't push any serious talks because you didn't goad her by contributing. She didn't press the issue, so that's also a good thing.
Just keep up with the positive interactions.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
