The movie was good and intense. Not really sure that is what I needed right now. No word from ex.
I don't expect a miracle to hit here and have him finally understand that his choices have repercussions. I am not trying to be cruel. I am the lioness and these are my cubs and you don't screw around with them and not expect a smack of reality from the mamma.
I know he is planning on living with OW in the next 9 months or so. But he isn't seeing how that plays out with the kids. He just sees his life then being perfect. I know the kids would really "love" the idea of having to get up even earlier to get ready with 3 more people in the way, drive the 40 minutes or so just to get back here and go to school. I can "see" how much thought about the kids has gone on in his thought process. Sorry, this still hurts that he won't put them first.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory