I am happy to read this; it sounds as if things are going really well. I'm betting you'll have periodic setbacks as she grapples with the situation and then eventually you'll have to address the issues that made you separate in the first place. That will be really hard, but I think you will be able to do it.
I like the idea of stepping up the romance. The part you wrote about the picture is interesting--I had written to myself at one point how much it would have meant if H had wanted to be in a family picture. Actually, you have me thinking that I need to get a picture taken.
Don't propose to her unless you are certain you are going to get a Yes. Which means that you've discussed it and you know where you stand.....
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D