Moved out to apartment, WAW moved back to house

[MrNiceGuy]

Hearing from mutual friends that she pretty much loathes me and she felt I was a controlling nightmare, which is exactly what I saw her as.

Yes, I did overreact and set the 'meeting', and we had a long, comfortable discussion where we both pointed out the control issues to each other and ended with me asking for the divorce, which she was content with.

This is not what I wanted to happen overall, but we were both very calm and composed about it walked out feeling it was the best decision. Right now, I feel surprisingly good, like a large burden has been lifted, but I'm certain I'll panic by tomorrow.

I also plan to continue with my coach in case there is some progress down the road between us.

Perhaps this is permanent, perhaps this is a backslide, but we made a huge amount of progress about the reality of the situation in a short amount of time.

I'm certain my coach will chastise me.