Dear SLH-

It is always easier to look back and see our mistakes. No one gets M, expects to D or have a partner leave. We think we can argue, fuss and make up.It is such a shock when things get to this point. Sometimes it is a wake up call, and allows the couple to reinvent their R to fit the growing needs of both. I wish you well in your hard efforts - I can tell you are putting yourself 100% into it like Mr L. Love to read both posts and see people care so much about their M.
The good side of it all is that things can be turned around.


Me late 50's
M 9/06
D 4/11