Ive been doing lots of nice stuff for myself lately and I am feeling really good about everything.
H has finally paid off ALL of my debt (besides my car payment) which means at the very least I will start my new life debt free!
Also, he is letting me stay in the house until I am financially able to afford my own place (its in the agreement) because that will take a few months...so no need for me to panic about finding a place for a little while. He is getting awarded the house in case you are wondering. He has the financial means to keep it, I do not.
So I am holding up well. I havent had any communication with H except for some texts back and forth about the bills today. Straight and to the point. He has backed off alot since I put my foot down about his booty calls and constantly asking me out to eat only to remind me that he still wants a D "its just eating out"
So we don't do anything together anymore. I feel ok about it. I do better when he isn't around anyway. When he comes around and leaves again, that is hard. He needs to feel what being D is like anyway and I wasn't doing a good job of showing that to him.
Hope everyone has a great weekend and I will update if anything happens!
