Wait, why are you going to do that? Confronting her won't help you at all and puts the focus in the wrong place...Slow down, take some time to consider what you're going to do next...it should be about you - not her. If she is MLC, you are going to have to find a profound patience in yourself - and a powerful level of forgiveness...and that's much easier when you focus on yourself instead of her...
I really don't understand why you're going to confront her...where is that coming from?