Slowly but surely - detach and 180

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I am considering sending this in an e-mail to W this weekend.



W,

It seems like you are still very unhappy with our living situation. I sincerely want to make this work for both of us.

Would you be willing to think about what could be done to make it better for you? Should we stay away from each other more? Do you need me to do more around the house or with the kids? Do you need to take the bills back or get more spending money? Am I doing things that make you uncomfortable or frustrated?

We had a good discussion last week and were able to discuss the things that were bothering us and it seemed things were better for a few days. I think we need to keep up that communication so that we can both be reasonable comfortable living here together.

You can be totally honest about whatever it is that you are unhappy about without worrying about hurting my feelings. I am open to any suggestions.




Partly I would like some insite into what it is that pisses her off so much and partly I just want our living situation to become more bearable and am willing to try anything.