I've Come Full Circle 25: All grown up

[kat727]

I am going to see Taken. Here is what I said to his request:

am sorry that you are using an e-mail too rather than trying to actually talk to me. Believe me when I say that I have my kids best interests and happiness at heart. Sadly, I see the anger and pain they have after almost every visit with you.

You don't seem to care that you spend your time with them with someone else around that they are not comfortable with. You want to rebuild those relationships but constantly insist that this other person be there. My own thoughts here are that this isn't helping them want to be with you because even when they are with you, you aren't with them.

I am glad that you have feelings about the kids but right now I do not think that I can extend more time when they feel that they aren't spending time with just you. I know they don't like being forced to go and that makes me terribly sad that they don't want to go. Divorce is ugly all the way around. I think right now it would be better if you made the time you had with them quality time with just them rebuilding those relationships.

I don't expect you to understand anything that I have said, but I hope that you will try and take it to heart.

There are a lot more issues that probably will need to be discussed but I think this issue needs to be addressed first.


Okay, what now?

kat