What's next???? The adventure continues!!!

[PortlandDad]

AFWAW, you are I are in the same spot. My W left me and our 3 kids behind and moved (back) to Germany. Her prime motivation was an aggressive A with an OM. Sadly, this seems to be the strongest motivator to compel a W to leave their kids. I pray that your sitch turns out differently, since I think a forgiveness issue might be easier to resolve than a full-blooded A, but maybe I feel that way because of where my family is currently at.

Another thing; it is normal to feel discouraged while DB'ing. Come on here and blow off some steam! You are among friends and sympathizers here. Hopefully you read some other folks' sitches and take some pieces of wisdom from their stories and what is working for them.

Do you still want to save your M? Only you can decide how much you can take and how far you want to go. If nothing else, you are doing an amazing job with your D. Work on that, and work on you -- you can decide how to handle your W later as there will be plenty of time for the rollercoaster to run its' course.

Peace.