I have tried to explain that everyone has different healing times and you can't make them heal any faster than they are.
kat
Glad you're going to a movie. Which one? Yeah, cheeseless tunnel to try to talk to your H about the kids and OW. I know you've tried several times and you have to think they just don't want to get it. They don't like to face or hear reality.
I think you should try to just leave it all up to your kids and X to work it out. I mean, your kids are old enough to let him know how they feel. I would encourage them to be honest with you (which I know they already are) and H about their feelings so you don't feel like you have to. This could be a good thing for them in that way. Karen
