I've Come Full Circle 25: All grown up

[kat727]

Just got home to an e-mail from ex asking for more time with the kids. He doesn't like what he did in the divorce decree, imagine that!! I have some anger towards his request because as of late he has insisted OW be with them almost on every occasion. The kids are upset and angry about it.

Stupid me tried to convey their feelings to him about it but I am sure he wrote that off as bitter ex wife. He doesn't believe that these feelings are their own.

I also am not happy about the request because he didn't uphold his part of the divorce decree by paying the bills he was supposed to. You may say well he filed B and because of that you have to file B so really it is all a wash isn't it? Well to me no.

I replied back to him saying that right now I don't like that the kids feel forced to go with him, they should want to go. But also that he won't listen to his own kids. He wants to build their relationships again but insists that she be there. He tells them to get over it, it is the past. I have tried to explain that everyone has different healing times and you can't make them heal any faster than they are.

I am angry right now and believe me with the stress of the B, I would probably yell at him if he were here. I really hope I can get that out of the way soon. UUUGGGHHHHHH

kat

I am going to a movie to try to decompress from this.