In desperate need of advice, separation looming!

[working on me]

Ok people, I needed that slap in the face!

I need to not grow a pair, I just need to put mine back on, I think I see that now.

I am going to tell her that I am not and will not move out. I know in my gut and heart that it is the wrong mesage to send to my two sons that need me know more than ever!
LET THE CHIPS FALL WERE THEY MAY.

THANKS puppy, don't give up on me! I need a swift sock to the jaw now and again, please keep up the advice!