Well 2g, it doesn't sound that bad really. Those sound like candid speeches from your h that we have all heard.

I would curb the mouth if that is one of the issues he has with you and make sure that everything that comes out is positive and loving.

Start showing him how appreciated you are to have him in your life. This will go a long way and a good starting point.

I would try to refrain from any R talks at this time. I don't think they would be productive.

The ML and caressing etc, sound good. At least he hasn't checked out completely in that are.

Your goal is to get your h to the point as that he wouldn't ever think of leaving you.

You do have some real positives that many of us don't see or have. I hope this business trip he goes on is a real positive.

Could you spend some time while he is gone, getting your house really clean and trying to maintain it at that level?

Last edited by glamgirl; 03/13/09 10:46 PM.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
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H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
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