...to bring psychology to it...its down to "shaping"
Your H has all the qualities you want - the challenge is to shape him into showing them to you - he's not lacking them... Its your shaping skills that need honing...
I AM ALL EARS!!!! PLEASE EXPLAIN! I am going to bed now, need to be pretty if I want to meet a jap or something similar to that... Please do find the time to explain though, thanks!!! xx K
Mykonos, Santorini, Koufonissia, Sifnos, Patmos...(amazing island, VERY spiritual, google it)