It's Complicated! Part 4

[glamgirl]

2g I try not to call my h unless I have to, but on occasion I will call or text and give him encouragment on the job or thank him for things he has done or to give an update on the kids.

When they are distant and in la la land, I do think it's best to let them do the contacting. I am not sure how that works, that you are living together but separated. Then to me, you are not separated.

I do believe we have to be the ones to stand and love unconditionally regardless of how they come across. I have been at this for a few years now and have found that kindness and love has gotten me much further along on this journey.

I will look for your thread.

Thanks Upside for posting. I will check on your thread and see if anything is new with you.