Not at you at all...No doubt that God can do anything through Grace and your story is a shining example. I have found that DB accomplishes one of two things. One: It produces a reconciled marriage or Two: It strengthens the DBer to help them transitition out of the marriage because the other spouse doesn't wake up.
I remember the exchange here between Puppy and I that you are referring to. What i was saying was that although I didn't save my marriage I would continue to contribute where I can because of what I have learned through all of this...
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***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***
Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch