Just so you know Fridays tend to be pretty quiet around here.
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Do you think if I finish a few life goals I had in the past he'll see I really am different now?
Are you doing them to show him... or are you doing them for you?
Do them for you. OK? Otherwise it is a trick and a bad one at that.
He will see you're different but he won't believe it at first.
And you cannot tell him your different because...well words are cheap.
Change for you and change for real and eventually he will believe in those changes.
Point in fact as an example, I have not played an on-line computer game in...f me...a very long time. I was addicted to them. And it was one of my failings in my marriage. My wife believes me now, that I am done with them, but it took a long time for her to believe that.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK