H still hiding A

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S&S,

Thanks for the reply!I haven't postd much, been doing a lot of "loitering". Sounds like a very supportive group! Just what we all need!

Me and D-14 just started counseling. D feels caught in the middle. And I was really proud of her during counseling. She spoke honestly and from the heart! This has brought me and D closer together.

H brought her over to OW home this past weekend! What was he thinking? D felt she had to, she didn't want to make him angry and she just wanted to be with her dad! He also told our D that he and OW are "good friends" and that she is going to be getting a D! And that me and him will probably also. He hasn't told me a thing!?

I didn't know if I wanted to confront him on that so I haven't contacted him this whole week.

Monday he did text me to see how I was. He found out I went to Dr. for depression. He also called me last night to see how kids conferences went. Our S-12 is failing 7th grade. Bright kid, he usually gets B's. It's just all this crap going on, plus he has a LD. I told H me and S are working on getting past homework caught up. H as never been able to relate to S, and has never really accepted his LD.

What do you mean the quicker reality sets in the better off you will be? He still hasn't told anyone of his A. He finally started to contact a couple of his friend since he has moved out and he told me that he's finding out his friends are really not his friends. He said one couldn't look him in the eye and the other was short on words. What did he think they would think? He just told them he had to move out because he was unhappy!?

It has been tough, but I have been trying to GAL and spending time with Kids helps.

You had mentioned that I should look at your earlier posts and do the opposite of what you did. I can't seem to find your earlier posts? How do I access them? I'm still trying to navigate my way around here!