I am. I'm saying that if you can't stand up for yourself, I really can't help you, and I'm wasting my time. You're being a total doormat, and I can't get thru to you. Maybe someone else can.
Why would you let your W go out with another man? Set a boundary. Work on your self-respect and confidence. Your W is using this other guy as a diversion and you are letting it happen. It will be that much harder for her to notice your changes if she has a life boat to rescue her. Doormat means she is walking all over you and you don't seem to mind. Puppy is giving you good advice back up and look at it again. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
