To the Above folks -- thanks for the words. I am not real happy about this. I get to follow doctors orders forever and hope the liver doesn't turn to stone.

I'll read that article and see if it fits over in this state.

BS (me) 57
WW (her) 51
M - 27+ years
Sons - 34/21
daugh - 32/26
D-day - (A#1 Apr 98) (A#2 Oct 08)
Status - minimal contact (me)
living with OM (her)
Divorce - Scheduled for Apr 09