Seperated But Living Together

[2gthrButApart]

I think he is, he basically has said eveything in the "script"

Unhappy for the past 4 yrs (he just told me last March)
ILYBNILWY
Time for him to do for himself
He wants things in life like a new car, and more money and I'm holding him back b/c I'm always up his butt
He says he feel slike I've changed, He's not happy with ME
I drive him crazy, it's my fault we don't have anything in life
Maybe eventually he can find happiness but not with me
Maybe we can work things out, but not now
He wants a D


From my Newcomer's Post
Complaints during our M and/or during our discussion after the seperation which hw says lead us to this,

* He's not happy, says I changed. Says he doesn't know what "it" is, but I'm different ( I think a lot has to do with my self esteem, I know I'm beautiful, but am no longer comfortable in my clothes.
* Says I never Initiated sex
* I wasn't and am not neat enough (this is true)
* I have a nasty attitude and am sarcastic ( a wall I built early in my life due to my childhood)
* says I don't listen to him, and don't understand him
* Says he always Gave, now its time for him to get thing for himself
*Says I should have realized his struggles, and gotten a FT job sooner than when he HAD to ask me to get one
* I never accomplished anythign I said ai would, degrees and such, even thouh he had paid lots of $$ for those opportunities for me ( I let being mom consume me, and those things fell to the waist side)
* Says I never do anything I say I'm going to go do, like an errand or something of that nature
* Says I always have excuses when I don't do the things I said I was going to do that day
* Says I say sorry too much (again I think it's a childhood issue of mine)